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Apr. 5th, 2023 08:01 pmI get why locker rooms are necessary, but I would never want to undress in front of anyone who wasn't my lover.
When I was a kid and I was invited to someone's birthday party, I kept asking for where the bathroom was to put on my bathing suit but they kept directing me to the bedroom instead. So I went in and paused in surprise to find all the girls naked or getting undressed to do the same... I felt so violated. I hid behind the bed and made myself small as I got into my suit. I don't get why I couldn't have just been let to use the bathroom.
Anyway, I would never want to use a locker room. The idea of getting naked in front of other people is alien to me.
When I was a kid and I was invited to someone's birthday party, I kept asking for where the bathroom was to put on my bathing suit but they kept directing me to the bedroom instead. So I went in and paused in surprise to find all the girls naked or getting undressed to do the same... I felt so violated. I hid behind the bed and made myself small as I got into my suit. I don't get why I couldn't have just been let to use the bathroom.
Anyway, I would never want to use a locker room. The idea of getting naked in front of other people is alien to me.
